Saturday, June 2, 2012

Spanking or DD???

Our lives recently have just been turned upside down. I hate that I don't have time to blog. When I do blog, it seems to be all over the place.

Part of me is wondering if I shouldn't advertise this as a DD blog, but rather just spanking. While we are new to & still actively working to incorporate DD into our marriage, it seems that most of my blogs are related to our kink rather than our domestic discipline.

I really enjoy the support in this community.
Like pretty much everything else in our lives right now, I'm really confused.

Amazing how spanking can provide such needed stress relief for both parties!
I have been taking anti-anxiety medications lately, even taking up the occasional alcoholic beverage. Of all the things prescribed to me, nothing has provided the relief that I got with a good stress relief spanking! It was very relaxing & calming for Jase as well. I'm so glad my 'TOP' enjoys this as much as I do. :-)

Oh, well all I can say is I'm thankful for our love for each other & our bag of implements! & whichever direction this blog goes, I'm glad we embraced this lifestyle. Right now it is the only thing in our lives that is a norm & a constant!


  1. Jayden,

    I hope your life is back to normal soon.


  2. This is an interesting question. Obviously, it has to be answered by you and yours, but I know that we started with some DD and it seriously derailed us before we settled into more of a D/s lifestyle. Still submissive, still follow him, but without the punishments. Spanking is for maintenance, for pain (that it turns out I like) and for pleasure.

    But that is us. You have to find you.

  3. Doesn't really matter Jayden, in the sense that whatever direction you go in will be right for you. It will likely be some of both and you'll write about what's important at the time. It works.

    Hope life slows down a bit for you soon.