tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-83980438451558119672023-11-19T03:20:28.520-06:00Disciplining JaydenWhile incorporating DD into our relationship, it became clear that we are total & complete spankos! I couldn't ask for a more perfect scenario... My best friend, my husband, my lover is also my perfect Top! I love being his Bottom & I love that he loves me being his Bottom! What more can we ask for!?!?Jaydenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-15575193612528031912012-10-21T04:48:00.001-05:002012-10-21T04:48:57.454-05:00The final countdown...I'm counting! I don't know how many days i'm counting, but I know, soon we will get our lives back!I can't wait! These past few months have been terribly stressful. Literally...DD? What's that? Obviously something that we have been unable to continue d/t the constant presence of 'the houseguest'. Spanking all together for any reason has been completely nixed for months d/t lack of privacy. Talk Jaydenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-23431195727848837482012-07-02T06:00:00.001-05:002012-07-02T09:07:26.934-05:00Stressed,Depressed & In need of a SPANKING!I really wish that I could say this particular blog post was about spanking. I wish that I would be writing this blog with a throbbing between my legs & a sore bottom while reliving in my mind the intimacy of a recent erotic spanking. Or experiencing the light hearted, emotionally fulfilled feeling of a stress release spanking. Right now, I would be happy being able to blog about any kind of Jaydenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-59541873060032833522012-06-14T22:36:00.001-05:002012-06-14T22:36:15.107-05:00Note to Self...Shut Thy Mouth!Well, I've always known that I had a big mouth. U know that little filter that most people have between their brains & their mouths? That little thing that keeps people from saying things as soon as the thought hits the brain? Well, I don't have one! Tends to b problematic @ times. Obviously, speaking on impulse means I don't think about how things are going to sound once the thought is Jaydenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-10894963356216610752012-06-03T21:29:00.001-05:002012-06-03T21:29:09.834-05:00Stress Release Spanking # 2I got in from work Saturday morning & started working in the house. Jase was awake as well & it wasn't long before we realized that the entire house was still sleeping...hmmm...the decision was easy. We would finish where we left off Thursday night.Out came the implements & Over I went. A nice warm up, again with his hand, a wooden spoon & that plastic, slatted spatula. Then again, harder Jaydenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-85087546355352587552012-06-03T02:52:00.000-05:002012-06-03T03:39:22.790-05:00Stress Release SpankingI'm so thankful that Jase & I agreed to practice DD & spanking.
This whole thing came about because our marriage seemed to be teetering on the brink of destruction.
Unfortunately (or fortunately) we have very little time for discipline. But we are learning to make time for as much spanking as we can! :-)
The bond we have has always strengthened during difficult times. This time, our Jaydenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-74685866685589883242012-06-02T01:27:00.001-05:002012-06-02T01:27:10.158-05:00Spanking or DD???Our lives recently have just been turned upside down. I hate that I don't have time to blog. When I do blog, it seems to be all over the place.
Part of me is wondering if I shouldn't advertise this as a DD blog, but rather just spanking. While we are new to & still actively working to incorporate DD into our marriage, it seems that most of my blogs are related to our kink rather than our Jaydenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-7570063750245557682012-05-19T23:13:00.000-05:002012-05-19T23:32:52.341-05:00I'm so gonna get it!It has been forever since I've last blogged or even been able to read blogs.
Life being even more chaotic than usual, is really kickin' my ass right now! End of the school year, exams, parties, awards, recitals, tournaments. All piled on top of the usual madness & mayhem that is the joy of having a large family!
As if we had time for anything else, I came down sick. I'm still not all the way Jaydenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-86767882971904492482012-04-19T21:36:00.000-05:002012-04-30T08:31:13.712-05:00An OTK EpiphanyYou know those moments, where the light bulb comes on? That moment when something just Hits you? I recently had one of those moments while OTK.
Jase has adjusted to his 'top' position with remarkable ease. Of course he enjoys the physical as well as psychological control he has over me during a spanking.
This particular time, Jase was teasing me by letting me hear some of theJaydenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-65452918900958066382012-04-17T21:14:00.000-05:002012-04-30T08:32:01.686-05:00HaHa! She Called You SIR!Jase & I went to lunch with his mom yesterday. We were just sitting there, eating, talking about 'vanilla' things.
When Jase asked the waitress for something, she responded with the usual "Yes, Sir." This is the norm. Considered to be good manners, nothing unusual about it. However, being that my mind seems to always be on D/s, DD, spanking, etc. (& that fact Jaydenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-47758965199933557492012-04-17T15:29:00.002-05:002012-04-30T08:32:33.576-05:00The Sex, The Spanking & The OrgasmI got in from work that Saturday morning feeling like I was going to explode if there wasn't some release of that mounting sexual tension. As fate would have it, everyone was still sleeping. This allowed us some very rare & coveted private time.
We had recently received our order of 'quiet' implements from Cane-iac, but had only gotten to try them out briefly the day they arrivedJaydenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-32006915849043970032012-04-14T23:27:00.001-05:002012-04-17T15:39:00.786-05:00"Burning" Spanko Questions¿On a lighter note, after a recent trip to WalMart, I have a few "burning" questions & I hope I'm not just some perverted little freak... Well, I'm pretty sure I'm a perverted little freak, but I hope I'm not alone...
Does anyone else get warm & tingly ALL OVER while standing on the kitchenware aisle @ WalMart/Target, etc.?
Am I the only one that wonders somewhat absent mindedly through Jaydenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-19917621333580377062012-04-14T22:55:00.001-05:002012-04-30T08:33:14.477-05:00Proper introductionI wanted to properly introduce 'us' & For anyone that may have read my self psycho analysis blog, I wanted to clarify some thins. I felt like that blog to me made our relationship sound totally dysfunctional. Which is not the case. I mean we all have our degree of dysfunction, but we r not to the extreme.
Let me paint a more accurate picture of us:
Many of our friends/fmly think of us as Jaydenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-3485585619746535232012-04-14T00:29:00.001-05:002012-04-30T08:33:44.063-05:00Spanking JunkieDo u ever look around & just wonder where the hidden camera is in your life? I do, all the time.
We are definitely finding that this lifestyle (meaning the DD relationship & the 'kink') is not one you can just jump right into. It seems like things are even more compounded & frustrating due to the additional adult residing in this house.
We are having to do everything (w/ regardJaydenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-75916249499741344982012-04-11T03:08:00.000-05:002012-04-30T08:34:30.407-05:00What I Want from a DD Relationship: How I explained itThis is the 2nd. entry that I wrote in my journal before I decided to blog. I don't know why, but for some reason I have a very hard time discussing certain things. I don't know why, but asking for discipline is very hard for me (to verbalize). Admitting to enjoying erotic spanking is difficult for me (to verbalize). For some reason even the word 'spank' seems to sound allJaydenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-57472277458423310112012-04-11T00:13:00.002-05:002012-04-30T08:34:51.985-05:00My Self "Psycho Analysis"I've decided to go ahead & post some of the things that I'd written in my journal before I decided to start a blog. I'm not very good @ writing, & I pretty much suck @ grammar, so it's nothing fabulous. This first journal entry that I titled "My self psycho-analysis" was my way of actually admitting to & accepting some of the more painful events in my life. Understanding Jaydenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-59017740049018949602012-04-07T01:21:00.001-05:002012-04-07T01:21:10.341-05:00WTH!?!?OMG! I just spent 2 hours transferring part of a journal entry onto my blog. Unfortunately I'm having to do it from my cell phone. But, I got to a stopping point, hit "publish" & it's NOT here! WTH?! Great! I guess one day I'll get back around to re-doing it! Grrrr!Jaydenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-79033659672518270092012-03-30T22:16:00.001-05:002012-03-30T22:16:42.746-05:00Busy, BusyHere it is the weekend, AGAIN. So I'm back @ work. Waiting with anticipation to see what trauma's the local 'Gun & Knife show' has in store for us this weekend.
We've been so busy taking care of other important business, that we have had no time to discuss & work on anything else, much less blog about it.
:-( So, @ least we r getting through current trials together w/out being @ each others Jaydenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-16362250841191064432012-03-22T01:56:00.001-05:002012-04-30T08:35:40.741-05:00Working out the 'Spanking Kinks'
It amazes me that you can spend 20 years with someone, know every inch of their body, know what they are going to say before they say it, know all of their likes and dislikes (or so you think)... but still not truly know them!
It is just as amazing to me that you can feel so comfortable with someone, you can share your most intimate secrets with them, but still be afraid to admit Jaydenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.com14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-71840314780885950862012-03-21T03:38:00.001-05:002012-03-21T03:38:30.558-05:00Blog...Blog...BlogI've been trying to figure all this Blog stuff out. Apparently I'm much better @ lurking than blogging.
I decided to start blogging bc like so many, my husband & I have decided to incorporate domestic discipline into our marriage.
We are still in the beginning stages, so what better time to start blogging? I often find it easier to express my feelings in writing & @ least this way, I won't getJaydenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.com4