tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post1636225084119106443..comments2023-04-12T04:39:05.844-05:00Comments on Disciplining Jayden: Working out the 'Spanking Kinks'Jaydenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-16926316813803901432012-04-11T00:23:41.841-05:002012-04-11T00:23:41.841-05:00@ Abby, Thank you for the support. I really apprec...@ Abby, Thank you for the support. I really appreciate what a supportive community this is. Everyone has been so encouraging!<br /><br />@ Daisychain, Thank you for the advice. Honestly, it hadn't occurred to me to have a safe word for discipline. You are definitely right, that is something that we are going to have to do. I'm so excited to keep meeting and learning from others in our Jaydenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-56919857108093341862012-04-10T03:00:28.036-05:002012-04-10T03:00:28.036-05:00Hi, Jayden!!! Love your blog...am going to be fo...Hi, Jayden!!! Love your blog...am going to be following your journey with interest, because you have voiced what I also felt in the early days!<br /><br />Have a safe word...yes, even for use in discipline - you sound like me, and if so, would be too stubborn to use it frivolously. But, at the beginning, especially, you are learning each others boundaries and your partner needs to get to know Daisychainhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10327195200946342709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-38287121739864329952012-03-26T20:05:20.972-05:002012-03-26T20:05:20.972-05:00Welcome to the world of blogging. You will find wh...Welcome to the world of blogging. You will find what works for both of you, it will take a little time...maybe more than a little. You have all ready taken the most difficult first step! abbyabbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17208861579579989418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-45682591918886273542012-03-26T08:45:08.966-05:002012-03-26T08:45:08.966-05:00The things I am learning, accepting, admitting abo...The things I am learning, accepting, admitting about myself since 'coming out' (LoL)...it is shocking! I look forward to reading more on your blog also! <br />Thanks for the support & encouragement!Jaydenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-69220501612022678382012-03-26T08:37:06.436-05:002012-03-26T08:37:06.436-05:00Thank u, Kiki!
I really was surprised @ how many p...Thank u, Kiki!<br />I really was surprised @ how many people there r are in this community. I was also quite relieved to learn that this is really more common than we think! As far as the kids go, haha! I actually get that quite a bit (usually bc people think I look like a kid myself. 12 - 18 is the age range I usually hear. LoL.) Mostly people are surprised that all of our kids are 'OURS'Jaydenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-38262588243565867942012-03-26T08:28:26.148-05:002012-03-26T08:28:26.148-05:00Im already seeing what a supportive 'community...Im already seeing what a supportive 'community' this is. I'm excited to interact with & gain insight from everyone.<br />Thank u! :-)Jaydenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-70566900018910091362012-03-26T05:40:00.085-05:002012-03-26T05:40:00.085-05:00Thank u. I'm learning about the 'stress re...Thank u. I'm learning about the 'stress relief' aspect of spanking! It's almost addictive!Jaydenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-13114665264348775822012-03-26T05:20:31.484-05:002012-03-26T05:20:31.484-05:00Thank u so much, Sarah! We have really enjoyed rea...Thank u so much, Sarah! We have really enjoyed reading your stories as well as your blog! I know that this is going to b a great challenge, & difficult on may levels. I am very much looking forward to all of the positives that will come from a DD marriage! Thank you for all of your support (especially before u even knew you were supporting me/us)! LoL!Jaydenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-47837633852681017172012-03-25T21:03:13.762-05:002012-03-25T21:03:13.762-05:00Hi there, we have been through this over the last ...Hi there, we have been through this over the last two months... oh, who am I kidding - we are still there! We started with a written contract of consensual slavery (sexual), diverted into DD for a while (causing me to start a whole separate blog) and are currently at spank me please, even if you have to make up a reason. The contract expires in one month (they say you should keep the first one Kitty the Submissive Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00185859722963938064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-12503287821206997212012-03-25T19:34:18.984-05:002012-03-25T19:34:18.984-05:00When I read your profile, I thought "Jayden a...When I read your profile, I thought "Jayden and I must be evil twins separated at birth." Lol.<br />I had no idea there was a name for this lifestyle until a few months ago, when I came across a blog by accident. Were you as stunned as I at the number of blogs? As I started reading them, I noticed that couples in dd relationships have a lot of kids; so, I don't know why I was Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-30443218722783801932012-03-25T14:51:02.778-05:002012-03-25T14:51:02.778-05:00Welcome to the blogosphere! Looking forward to hea...Welcome to the blogosphere! Looking forward to hearing about your journey!alex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-24827624753845129992012-03-25T13:58:30.162-05:002012-03-25T13:58:30.162-05:00Welcome to blogging Jayden! Sarah sent us over. ...Welcome to blogging Jayden! Sarah sent us over. I can relate to bunches of things you say in this post and it'll be fun to get to know you a bit thru your blog. I hope you find it to be a fun and helpful process...this emptying of the head. It's a real nice community and you'll find lots of support.Susiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02119037021959690783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-44765368548708850612012-03-25T10:50:41.469-05:002012-03-25T10:50:41.469-05:00Welcome to blogland!!! I only have a minute, but w...Welcome to blogland!!! I only have a minute, but wanted to say hi and also to let you know that a non-punishment spanking helps to relieve stress. It took me a long time to cry, but it happens way more frequently if my husband talks/lectures beforehand. There's a joke between us that he needs to "use your words". Good luck in your new journey together!!Roguehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06369103338758893709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398043845155811967.post-29359426783590632532012-03-25T09:36:23.668-05:002012-03-25T09:36:23.668-05:00GREAT start, and thanks so much for the shout-out!...GREAT start, and thanks so much for the shout-out! I used to write a DD blog, but, well, we kinda put it on the back burner for now.<br /><br />It IS scary to be faced with it, because with discipline, you get it even when you DON'T want it!! You may not be in ANY mood to be touched by hubby, much less have him take control!!! And it makes you so much more vulnerable, altho with that sarah thornehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07297956738875001690noreply@blogger.com